Watch for These Warning Signs of Trouble In Your Relationship
We are often caught off guard when trouble rears its ugly head in our marriage or relationship. If you are diligent and you pay attention, you can recognize the red flags that come up [...]
The importance of compassion and kindness
We’re coming out of the season of giving and it reminds me that there are some good things about the holidays that we should attempt to continue throughout the year. Compassion and Kindness are [...]
In Loving Memory Ollie Fensterheim 2007-2018
My dog Ollie passed away Sunday unexpectedly. We think it was a heart attack or stroke. He was fine one minute, and then he was down, and shortly thereafter, he was gone. While we’re [...]
Marriage Counseling: A wake up call to do better
In the same way that a health scare like a heart attack or cancer can be a wakeup call for you to pay better attention to the state of your health and how you [...]
Worthy Goals for 2018
Throw away your New Year’s Resolutions and set some achievable and worthy goals for you and your partner for 2018. These are 10 suggestions that will set you and your partner up for a [...]
The need men feel to be the champion in their relationship
You’re a middle-aged couple, no kids. You’ve decided to put off having children to concentrate first on your education, then on your chosen careers. Sound familiar? It does to me. I recently saw a [...]
New Year New Me
Throw away all those lists and resolutions. New Year, New Me! Bah! What you need is an everyday affirmation of love and happiness. You don’t need to set yourself and your partner up for [...]
Marriage Counseling: Can your marriage be saved?
This is not a “how-to guide” to fixing your marriage, but instead some insight and words of encouragement. So many couples that come to my Couples Expert office for counseling are hopeless, they feel [...]
List of New Year’s Resolutions for couples
Oh those resolutions! Lose weight, quit smoking, call your mother more, travel, change jobs, go back to school; get married. New Year, new me! How many times have we heard these? It’s a small [...]
Look Both Ways
At the end of the year there’s always some looking back. Dissecting and analyzing of how things went; what worked and what didn’t. Did we make good choices? Did we make mistakes? Did we [...]

