Togetherness Is the Goal
Couples come to see me in my office practice in Scottsdale, AZ when they’re feeling overwhelmed, isolated or disconnected from one another; conflicted, or in pain. Talking with one of these couples recently got me [...]
One Bad Apple: Don’t Let One Bad Experience Spoil the Bunch
You’ve heard the expression that “one bad apple spoils the bunch.” This can be applied to relationships as well. You can go along in your lives doing well and then one bad experience, (a fight, [...]
Whose Side Are You On?
Life is fraught with challenges and obstacles. When you’re in a love relationship you should have an ally, a partner and team member who will stand with you in the tough times. Unfortunately that’s not [...]
It Really Is All About You
When couples are in conflict there is a tendency to blame and point fingers. When things go from bad to worse, neither party wants to own up to their part in the disintegration of the [...]
Seasons of Change
From first love’s passion to end of life, relationships go through a rollercoaster of ups and downs, seasons of change. People grow and evolve over time, but not always at the same rate. Passion changes, [...]
How To Stop Shouting
As a couple’s counselor, I do an extensive intake and assessment process when new clients are introduced. I need to find out the core issues that these couples are struggling with to cut through the [...]
Disarming & Charming – Compatibility Mode
So many couples come to The Couples Expert office practice in Scottsdale stating that communication is where they need help. They just don’t seem to be able to accomplish anything when they try to “talk [...]
Remember Why You Fell
When I see a couple in my office it’s usually 5 or 6 years too late for a quick solution. Many times these couples have been striving in a series of escalating conflict that boils [...]
After Infidelity – Part 3
Welcome to Part 3 of our series exploring decision-making after infidelity. The question that anyone who has ever experienced this traumatic relationship injury has asked him or herself is, “Should I stay or should I [...]
After Infidelity – Part 2
Welcome to Part 2 of our 3 part series exploring decision making after infidelity. The question that anyone who has ever experienced this traumatic relationship injury has asked him or herself is, “Should I stay [...]