Go Be Successful. I’ve Got Your Back
They key to business success is having a solid relationship at home that you can count on. When we see prominent people, people who are successful in their career path, business owners, politicians; people at [...]
Building a Bridge of Connection
Rebuilding a lost connection when you feel you’re down in the valley all alone and your partner is across the wide and empty chasm. Loneliness doesn’t always mean you are alone. If you’re struggling with [...]
Fair Fighting
When we’re trying to sit down and resolve conflicts in a relationship, we have to approach it a certain way. This is going to come across a lot like a problem-solving approach, and it is. [...]
EFT and Conflict Resolution
EFT is a type of counseling that focuses on adult relationships and attachments. It’s an attachment-based model. The counselor looks at the relationship issues with regard to the connection that couples develop a secure bond [...]
Emotional Affair: The Warning Signs
This is a true story about a couple where one of the partners had an emotional affair. John (not his real name) was married to Jill for approximately 30 years; the two of them were [...]
5 Characteristics of Successful Couples
As a couples counselor, I work with individuals and couples with many different issues that are preventing their relationship from feeling an emotional connection. Through the years of working as a couples counselor, many people [...]
Mediocre Marriage – Is it too Late for Love?
As a couples counselor, I spend my life meeting with couples that are in terrible pain with regards to their relationships. I have been a counselor for over 35 years and have developed a knack [...]
CELEBRATE YOUR LOVE EVERY DAY
It’s Valentine’s week and couples are absorbed in making plans and dinner reservations, shopping for jewelry and flowers, her favorite chocolates, his favorite lingerie. Deciding how you will celebrate Valentine’s Day can be challenging [...]
Couples Therapy: What if Your Partner Refuses?
You want to be happy and have a relationship you are proud of. You have great friends, your kids are happy, and you are in a committed relationship, but does it have to feel so [...]
Love In The Time Of Midterms: How To Keep Peace In The Political Process
Remember back in 2016 how we all felt a bit of election fatigue? There were some very unhappy families and even broken relationships that resulted from the lead up to the Presidential election. Maybe [...]
