When we’re trying to sit down and resolve conflicts in a relationship, we have to approach it a certain way. This is going to come across a lot like a problem-solving approach, and it is. What I want you to look at is the underlying issues that come with this approach. The main goal is [...]
EFT is a type of counseling that focuses on adult relationships and attachments. It’s an attachment-based model. The counselor looks at the relationship issues with regard to the connection that couples develop a secure bond a bond of trust; developing secure connections that move the relationship in a healthier and more positive direction. Each person [...]
This is a true story about a couple where one of the partners had an emotional affair. John (not his real name) was married to Jill for approximately 30 years; the two of them were very much in love with each other. The affair started innocently when John opened a Facebook account on the [...]
As a couples counselor, I spend my life meeting with couples that are in terrible pain with regards to their relationships. I have been a counselor for over 35 years and have developed a knack of not bringing my work home with me so that it doesn't interfere with my personal life. It can be [...]
