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19 02, 2019

Mediocre Marriage – Is it too Late for Love?

2019-02-19T22:52:11+00:00

As a couples counselor, I spend my life meeting with couples that are in terrible pain with regards to their relationships.  I have been a counselor for over 35 years and have developed a knack of not bringing my work home with me so that it doesn't interfere with my personal life. It can be [...]

Mediocre Marriage – Is it too Late for Love? 2019-02-19T22:52:11+00:00
28 09, 2018

Why Women Leave (Hint: It’s Not Infidelity)

2018-09-28T15:05:52+00:00

Women file for divorce twice as much as men do. Is it because they have a lower pain threshold? Do they give up easier, are they somehow weaker? No. Women are more readily disappointed when the reality of marriage does not live up to their expectations. Women on the whole are far better communicators [...]

Why Women Leave (Hint: It’s Not Infidelity) 2018-09-28T15:05:52+00:00
7 02, 2018

Relationship Advice: Who gets excluded from the family celebrations?

2018-03-07T02:35:55+00:00

Family celebrations are important; for the kids and for adults. Our tribe, our clan, our loved ones with our shared histories and childhood experiences is unique. We need to get together to celebrate those milestones of births, anniversaries, graduations, weddings, and yes, funerals. When you have remarriages, step and half-siblings and ex-husbands and wives, [...]

Relationship Advice: Who gets excluded from the family celebrations? 2018-03-07T02:35:55+00:00
18 12, 2017

No such thing as a sudden divorce

2017-12-18T15:04:57+00:00

When couples come to me for counseling and I do my individual and couples assessments I often hear from one of the partners that they had “no idea he/she felt this way” or they never saw it coming. I call bullshit. There is no such thing as a sudden divorce. There are often years [...]

No such thing as a sudden divorce 2017-12-18T15:04:57+00:00