//Embody the Season


What is this holiday spirit? We hear about the “War on Christmas”, don’t say “Merry Christmas” It’s not tolerant or inclusive enough in this diverse society that we live in. We don’t want to offend anyone but we still want to share our joy in the holiday season. A good example is my children always felt uncomfortable they wanted to hear Happy Hanukkah when going into a store. People forget that words have an impact. We should always be as inclusive as possible.

The point, though truthfully, is it’s not as much about what you say, it’s about your actions; your feelings, and the way you treat your fellow human beings; not only at the holidays but all year round.

What I advocate in my work is love. It’s very simple. Be kind; act lovingly, and treat your partner, your children, your family members and society at large in a loving way.If you can do this, you will already be in the holiday spirit.

All of us here at The Couples Experts wish you the following:  

  • A lovely December
  • A happy and joyous holiday season
  • Joy and blessing
  • Time with those you love
  • More Love in your life
  • Have more fun!
  • Peach and happiness this holiday!



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Stuart Fensterheim, LCSW helps couples to overcome the disconnection in their relationships As an author, blogger and podcaster, Stuart has helped couples around the world to experience a unique relationship in which they can feel special and important, confident in knowing they are loved deeply and that their presence matters. His weekend workshop, Two Days: Seven Conversations has become a popular venue for many to set off on their journey of connectedness. The Couples Expert Podcast consists of weekly provocative conversations offering the perspectives and insight of experts from a variety of relationship related fields. Stuart also offers daily relationship video tips on The Couples Expert YouTube channeland by subscription in Stuart’s Daily Notes. Stuart is happily married and a devoted father of 2 daughters. He lives and works in Scottsdale, Arizona.

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